The adventures of one former missionary couple journeying along on their life after staff. For all of our family, friends and supporters, we hope this will help you stay connected. Additionally for all our staff friends, it's a rare glimpse into life on the other side :)
Jan 31, 2010
Hii-ii!
It started two weeks ago when she said it to me when I came into her room in the morning. Talk about melting my heart!
Then she reportedly said it to every adult, child and toy the whole time she was in childcare during Bible study.
Then she started picking up her phone and saying it.
Now she says it whenever Jason or I come home. If that isn't the best greeting when walking through the door I don't know what is!
And a few days ago she said it to EVERY single person we rolled past...in Wal-Mart...on a Friday afternoon. Yup. I heard it A LOT!
It never gets old. See for yourself!
Jan 26, 2010
I have THE best husband.
Sensing this stay at home/working mommy needed a break, he booked me 2 nights at an Inn so that I could relax/scrapbook/watch cable TV. He arranged for a good friend to visit me there. (The fact that I cancelled it because we really can't afford it right now, has no bearing on how amazing that was!)
In lieu of said Inn stay, he watched Ella all day on Friday while my friend and I went to a fabulous cafe, perused paint colors, caught up on life and then went to a movie!
Without so much as a mention or asking, he noticed a few staple groceries we were short on and picked them up while he was out!
As a fun little suprise, he brought home a movie that (a long time ago) I had mentioned I'd like to see. (The man has a horrible memory and a knack for slamming his head into things to make memory matters worse...so this was quite amazing!)
AND after sensing that this mommy is slowing losing herself and needing to get back to her passion...knowing I've wanted one ever since college...seeing me save for one for so many years only to watch me have to depleat the savings for things like short paychecks with CCC, getting out of debt after CCC, hospital bills for having Ella etc. etc. etc.....He bought me a DSLR camera!
(Okay, it's used and it's only the body, but that's more than I ever thought I'd have so I'm beyond stoked to be moving in the right direction! He said he crunched all the numbers and we can afford it. I don't know how, but we don't have credit cards anymore so I know it's within our means and that's all I care about!)
I feel very blessed.
Jan 23, 2010
Ella Bella!
My favorite was soccer. Not that I'm pushing one sport or another here, or tryin' to brag or anything...but I was a pretty good goalkeeper for a class A team. Made varsity my freshman year, racked up a few awards regionally and statewide in my day....I see Ella following in her momma's footsteps. Just look at this video. Watch that arm. See how she throws her body with cat-like reflexes and makes a quicks save as the ball comes back at her. And then marvel at her quick redistribution. I'm tellin' ya. She's a child prodigy! ;)
And here is the little sweety feeding her baby a bottle. I didn't even teach her this. Well I kind of did, but not intentionally. When she first got her doll she would just chuck it on the floor. So I would pick it up and rock it and feed it a bottle. Well, two days ago she found the bottle lying on the floor, grabbed it, went and found her baby doll and "fed her a bottle". Now she does it all the time and "rocks" the baby too. Precious!
A few of her new talents are climbing the stairs (which she wants to do ALL of the time) and standing up without holding onto anything (That I've not gotten a video of yet because it happens for just a few seconds at a time).
Jan 21, 2010
Scott Brown
A lot of my friends...and many other people are very upset about it. But I'd really like people to just take a deep breath...take one giant step back from the whole issue and think about what it says that he got elected.
In a state that is made up of an estimated 10 - 15 % republicans...a republican got elected.
He ran pretty much solely on the platform that he would vote AGAINST the healthcare reform bill that is up for passage.
Ask yourselves what this says.
I'll give you my take. It says that right wing conservatives are not the only ones who oppose this healthcare reform bill!!! It says that a highly liberal, democratic state was willing to elect a republican if it meant that it would stop the healthcare reform bill!!! It says that a lot of people in general want healthcare reform but think that this is NOT reform. It says that people are tired of this bill being railroaded through with earmark after earmark being added to buy the votes they need!
WOW. It's really sad that representatives have minimized the amount of people who actually disagree with this bill. It's really sad that they are pushing their own agendas and not listening to and doing what their constituants want. THAT IS THEIR JOB YOU KNOW! It's sad that it took this and came down to this but Halleluiah that Scott Brown will the the vote needed to halt this maddness!
Jan 19, 2010
Karma's a @#$%&
Well, shortly after that we ordered him a $17 titanium wedding band online. Despite using their handy ring sizer, it didn't fit him. Couldn't return it and from all I had read, titanium can't be resized either.
A few months later...after getting hit on AGAIN, by ANOTHER nurse at the shipyard blood drive he decided to take action. He went to the local jeweler and ordered a cheap silver band. They also informed him that his Titanium ring could be resized one 1/2 size smaller which is exactly what he needed. So he had that done too...so he'd have a back up.
On Saturday the rings from the jeweler were ready. He picked them up, slipped one on his finger and voila! We're married again!
Yesterday (Monday) he went ice fishing with some friends on his day off. He came home, head hung kind of low, looking up at me with his best puppy dog eyes and said, "You'll never guess what I found." Yes, ladies and gentlemen, you guessed it! That original ring that he had "taken off at school and put in his desk drawer" that "some kid must have stolen" was in the pocket of his ice fishing coat this whole time!
"So what the heck are you going to do with three rings?" I asked.
"Keep them all," he replied, "I have a feeling I'll need all three!"
Jan 14, 2010
WE GOT THE HOUSE!!! WE GOT THE HOUSE!!! WE GOT THE HOUSE!!!
Our Fabulous, wondrous, magnificent realtor Gesine (who has worked so hard and more than earned her keep showing us house upon house upon house!) called yesterday afternoon to tell us the bank accepted our offer and wants to close Feb 13th! Mortgage broker says no problem. Home inspection tomorrow at 10am! Landlord already got back to us saying that leaving end of February will be fine (that's a praise!) I can hardly believe it's actually happening!!!
As with all of our moves, we have tried to bathe this in prayer, asking for guidance, direction and wisdom the whole way. Still, in there it's often hard to separate sometimes if it's God's voice saying "yes" or your own desires saying "go ahead!"
But we really do believe this is of God and from God for many reasons. We have seen his hand all throughout the process in ways to lengthy to detail right now.
There is no way that we could afford such a HUGE (6 bedroom, 2.5 bathroom, on almost 3 acres on a dead end road), beautiful (9 foot celings, wood and tile floor, woodstove hearth, master suite etc. etc.) house at true market value. We feel BEYOND humbled and blessed to be getting such a wonderful home for such a small price tag. We feel that He is providing us with this house so that He can have us use it for His glory in some way. We have thrown around ideas of what that might be, but continue to wait for His plan in that! We definitely keep pinching ourselves and I'm not sure I truly believe it's real until the papers are signed and keys are in hand!
Jan 11, 2010
A Fun Illustration!
Jan 8, 2010
Ingenuity
Jan 7, 2010
A Little Plug
From the very first weeks of Ella's life we've tried to establish healthy routines for her. In all of my research and all my experience working with children I've found that this is what they thrive on. In order to do this, we decided to impliment the techniques outlined in Babywise. Essentially it helps you to help your baby get into a routine of sleep/eat/wake while helping you learn what your baby's cries mean and learn how to better meet their needs. It also helps your baby learn to sleep, which was an added bonus for us. Countless mothers that I know have used this with children of all different personalities and have had similar, positive results. (There are a lot of people out there, writing outlandish criticizms of the book. Many a claim which I've found to be downright lies. So...don't knock it until you have at least READ it for yourself and at best, tried it.)
Ella has a great routine throughout the day. It is the same sleep/eat/wake cycle we started her on when she was an infant, there were just many more cycles of it when she was younger!
~She wakes up 7 or 8 a.m./eats breakfast/plays.
~Naps/wakes up/eats lunch/plays.
~Naps/wakes up/eats a snack,/plays/has dinner/bedtime routine/in bed by 6-6:30 out like a light. Sleeps through the night. Always.
It keeps us all healthy and happy. She gets the sleep her little brain needs to develop, we all know whats coming next which keeps chaos from ever ensuing and it definitely helps Jason and I keep a great relationship going because we have every evening after 6:30pm to spend together.
And Ella knows her routine well. For instance, if she ever starts getting fussy in the evening (which she was just prior to this video), all you have to do is tell her whats happening next, she'll sign it and light right up, then it's one happy kiddo again and off to the tub!
There's my plug for Babywise...go ahead, give it a try! And enjoy this little video while you're at it!
Jan 6, 2010
Life Update
Jan 4, 2010
I'm Fat!
Now seriously...if you know my husband, then you know that there is no WAY he is fat and that he must just have some SERIOUSLY skinny jeans he was tryin' to wiggle into this a.m.
But I will give him this... both Jason and I have gotten a little squishy around the middle as of late. Last year around this time I had just had a baby, was thrilled that I fit into my regular jeans within weeks, and hadn't a care in the world about it further than that. This summer we were out and about all the time, hiking, walking, swimming, playing, and eating healthy. With those things in play and me still nursing up a storm, I was dropping pounds faster than I could blink and lovin' it!
But alas, three things seem to have happened all at once...winter arrived and exercize decreased, the holidays hit and healthy eating flew right out the window, and I'm only nursing 2x a day now so those calories are not being burned on overdrive anymore. Jason only has the first two excuses to lean on so HA!
My plan is this: eat healthier and exercize more. I've got lots of specifics for myself and ways to keep me on track but I won't bore you with those details. I'll just say that today was a great start and the Lotte Berk Method workout (essential the way dancers work out - trying something new to spice things up) kicked my rear and I loved it.
And Jason, well I'm sure he'll eat like one less pretzel a day and lose 10 pounds by the end of this week!